Welcome
Welcome to my Etiquette page, your essential resource for ensuring our time together is smooth, respectful, and truly memorable. This page covers everything from booking requirements to thoughtful considerations, so you can relax and enjoy an effortless experience.
Booking Terms
I require a minimum booking time of two hours to ensure our time is meaningful and enjoyable. Advance notice of at least 24 hours is necessary, as same-day bookings are not available. Respectful communication and proper planning ensure our time together starts on the right note.
Arrival Etiquette
If our date takes place at your residence, I kindly ask that you remain indoors until I arrive. This small courtesy gives me the opportunity to collect myself, make any last adjustments, and greet you warmly at the door.
Screening Process
Your safety and mine are my top priorities. For new clients, I request that booking inquiries be submitted via the booking form in the Get in Touch section of my website. This allows me to collect the necessary details to arrange a safe and seamless meeting.
During the screening process, I may request one of the following:
- A valid form of ID, such as a passport or driver’s license (handled with strict confidentiality and deleted after our first meeting).
- Hotel booking confirmation (for meetings at hotels).
- A recent utility bill (for residential meetings).
- LinkedIn profile.
- A reference from a companion.
I want to reassure you that any details provided during the screening process are solely for my safety. These details are treated with the utmost care and confidentiality and are destroyed immediately after our first meeting. Once we’ve established trust, no further screening will be required for future dates.
I hope this clarity about my process puts your mind at ease. While I prioritize discretion and confidentiality, my personal safety is equally important, and I thank you for understanding.
After receiving your details, I’ll arrange a brief 5-minute phone call to confirm your booking and finalize arrangements.
Deposits and Payments
To secure your booking, a 30-50% deposit is required, payable via a discreet business account. Payment details will be shared once the screening process is complete. Please ensure the deposit is made within 24 hours of confirmation; otherwise, my schedule will reopen to other requests.
The remaining balance is payable in cash at the start of our date. For discretion, you’re welcome to present it in a flower box, envelope, dark chocolate box, or book—whichever suits you best.
Cancellations and Rescheduling
Life happens, and I completely understand that plans can change. However, to maintain fairness, the following cancellation etiquette applies:
More than 48 hours’ notice: Your full deposit can be applied to a new date within 30 days.
Less than 48 hours’ notice: A 50% cancellation fee applies.
Less than 24 hours’ notice: The full booking fee is required.
In the rare event that I need to cancel, I will contact you promptly to reschedule. If alternative dates are not suitable, I will issue a full refund of your deposit.
HHygiene and Presentation Etiquette
I take great care in my appearance and kindly ask that you do the same. Please be freshly showered, practice good oral hygiene, and wear attire that makes you feel confident. Let’s save intimate gestures for private moments; public displays of affection should remain discreet, such as a friendly kiss on the cheek (unless otherwise discussed beforehand).
Thoughtful Considerations
To make our time together as enjoyable as possible, here are a few preferences I kindly ask you to keep in mind:
- Drinks: I appreciate having a soft drink available during our time together. My favourites include apple juice, orange juice, pineapple juice, mocktails, and sparkling or still water.
- Meals: For bookings lasting 4 hours or longer, a hot meal is required. Whether it’s a romantic dinner at a fine restaurant or a relaxed meal in a private setting, sharing a meal adds warmth and depth to our time together.
- Advance Notice: Thoughtful preparation is key to creating an exceptional experience. I plan every detail, from selecting the perfect outfit to ensuring I’m at my best for you. Please book in advance to allow time for these arrangements.
Parking and Safety
When selecting a meeting location, please consider parking availability to ensure my safe arrival and departure. Securing on-site parking, where possible, is a thoughtful gesture that I greatly appreciate.
Gifts: A Touch of Kindness
Finally, while gifts are never expected, they are always appreciated as a kind gesture. If you’re looking for ideas, I particularly enjoy gift vouchers for Bordelle, Honey Birdette, Amazon, or Curry’s. These can also be emailed to me if that’s more convenient. Thoughtful gestures such as these add a lovely touch to our connection and are warmly received.
Let’s Create a Special Experience
If you have any questions about these guidelines and etiquette or would like further clarification, feel free to reach out via email. I look forward to creating a memorable, enjoyable, and truly special experience together.